I’m talking about the Lover, it’s his 30th birthday on July 11th.
Now, I know what to get him for unpersonal gifts((not going to mention them here, although he never reads my blog, I bet, this time he will)), but what personal gift should I make him?
I could give him a blow job, sure, but that’ll be over in… 60 minutes, so… not a good choice.
I could take him out to eat – but I don’t have the money for a luxury dinner.
I could spend a night with him in a nice hotel in a different city, but same problem as above.
I could cook him something, but we’re spending the weekend at his parent’s place, so, no.
I could dress up all sexy (and not wear my “grandma panties” – how he calls them), but same problem as above.
Any ideas for a personal-y gift?
Hahaha @ blowjob. I would think the same thing, but my boyfriend doesn’t seem to mind.
Also, for lookbook.nu, do you happen to have any invites? Haha 😛
I am hopeless with boy presents, they never seem to want anything, and if they do it’s a video game they’ll tire of eventually. How about tickets to a sports game? Although those can get pricey. Otherwise, I think just a day where you give him “everything” he wants (within the boundaries of common sense, haha) would suffice!
Tjaa… when Jo turned 30 I baked him a cake and gave a cd… blow job 😛 I don’t remember. Anyway I think I’d go with the Shen-Shen’s “Day” idea.
Oh dear I guess I have to start thinking what I give Jo when he’ll turn 32 (I kinda missed 31 :P).
Happy birthday to him 🙂
I know how hard it is to get presents for guys! I’m so terrible at it, that I’ve never given a gift to the boyfriends I’ve had in the past. I’m not giving anything to my father either, tomorrow on father’s day. That’s how bad I am at thinking about gifts for guys. Your list of ideas sounds great, too bad they’re not possible this time. You should save some of those ideas for the next occasion 😉
Well, that was me and my totally unhelping comment, sorry 😛
I thought BJs were an everyday thing, not just a birthday thing. 😛
Have any…”interesting” dress up outfits to play out a few scenarios with him?
Cake? Everybody likes cake! 😀 Evern if you made it at a time when you’re not with his parents.
Make him something! A drawing, a painting, a photo! Hehe.
@Amanda: hehe, nah, it’s something special. You know, I have such a small mouth blablabla… 😛
make him a photo album with a bunch of photos of you two from the start of your relationship until present.
^^ oh, I like this.
hah, tracy. a blowjob?? yea, over in 60 seconds! LOL
i think you should go with christine’s idea too! making him something out of your own hands means really something special and im sure he’d appreciate it! an album of your past is pretty cool! =]
ooh, and you can still dress sexy for him! his parents won’t be staying in the same room as you guys, i assume? lol
good luck and happy birthday to alex!
What about getting some oil and a book on the subject and giving him a full body massage? I bought a book set on what they called an “erotic” massage and it has some rather….interesting techniques.
What about doing something or going somewhere that maybe you don’t usually like to do/go but he does? I don’t know. I stink at thinking up ideas. My anniversary is on the 18th, and I’ve got to come up with some ideas of my own. 😛
Haha, I bet he’ll like the blow job one the best, but you’re right. It is a short sixty minutes. Nah.
You should take him somewhere special. Not a restaurant or a bowling alley or anything where you have to spend money. Take him somewhere romantic, somewhere that is meaningful, somewhere that he’ll remember his entire life.
Although, I don’t know why I’m telling you this, because his birthday passes quite a few days ago. Tell him I said happy belated birthday!
Hour-long blow job?! He’ll love it 😉
^ No kidding!
I think that maybe you could do something personal to accentuate the impersonal gifts – so get him the impersonal stuff, and maybe arrange a cute method of delivery. Hide it in the house and get him to go on a treasure hunt for them (nothing says “hey, I might be turning 30 but I’m still a kid at heart” like a treasure hunt!)… Or make a super awesome card (possibly even larger-than-life) with photos of you two, stories (“remember that time…?”), and words of appreciation to him. Add some drawings. Bake some cookies. Basically, anything that takes effort – with the personal stuff, remember: it has little to do with what it is and everything to do with the thought behind it. 🙂
Best of luck!
Happy birthday to him! 😀 LOL, a whole 60-minute blow job? The session better include more than JUST that or your face will be numb. XD Hee!
I like the photo album idea that Christine had. I once bought a bunch of magnetized frames (rather inexpensive) that were different sizes and came in a whole pack, printed out pictures of me or us and gave them all to him. This was when we were living apart though, but he did like having me plastered all over his fridge. XD
I “made” him a blanket one Christmas! I suck at sewing but I went to the store anyway and got this super-soft black cloth and some soft dark green cloth. His “symbol” on the web & gaming is the biohazard emblem, so I found a cool version of it and printed it out real big, cut it out of the green fabric and sewed it as best as I could onto the black one! XD He thought it was awesome, hehe!
Good luck on deciding what you want to do! 😀
Sweet ideas ya’ll, thanks 🙂
Do him the gift and don’t wear grandma panties for a year!
If I gave a 60 minute blow job I think I would die.
Get a cheap, skanky hotel even if it’s a week after the birthday. Wear your sexy panties.
I think something like a gift basket of little sentimental things would be nice. I’m sure he’s not expecting anything extravagant. It’s the thought that counts right.
60 minutes or second?? That’s a hour lady. lol
Send him a poem. Perhaps an erotic poem or love letter. If you can’t write one yourself, hire someone. :-p Then give it to him in sexy underwear, or read it aloud.
Make a scrapbook, or compose a song for him! No matter how hard it may be but it could be “your song” 😉
Thinking of something to give to your lover is really hard to come up with, especially if the other is a guy. Boo I have a hard time with that also. Be creative. =) Like what Juice said.. Scrapbook would be nice. And I’m sure he wouldn’t mind a BJ to top his bday present off haha. Either way, I’m sure you’ll think of something. Like what people says.. its the thought that counts
A sixty minute BJ? My gosh!
You could try knitting something? Scarf is the easiest. I for one am terrible at that, but well doesn’t mean you are.
^^ I think I’m the same way. :/
I totally suck with gifts. I love giving them but never can think of something good. I do know on July 11 the new Iphone comes out. lol I’m a dork but any who. I am sure what ever you give him, he will love. Even a small gift will make him happy. 🙂
The idea of an hour-long BJ terrifies and amuses me. I think the guy would fall asleep. XD
I think you should give him something personal, something you made yourself. Or you could take something and personalise it, make it unique. If I had to give a gift, that’s what I’d do.